If you’re a single guy looking to meet an attractive girl for a relationship or just a short term affair then look no further!

In this post you’ll find out the top 20 best cities for single men in the world, ranked from 20-1.


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20. Jakarta, Indonesia

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Indonesian girls love foreign men

Hotness Of Women: 6/10
DIfficulty Of Approach: 5/10
City Livability: 5/10
Nightlife: 5/10Best Approach: DaytimeOverall Rating: 5.3/10

Jakarta is the lowest ranked city on this list for a number of key reasons:

The average women doesn’t match Thai standards here, and is way below the top European destinations.

The city itself is enormous, with an unbearble level of traffic that has to be seen to be believed. It can take literally hours to travel from one part of the city to another.

The nightlife is almost non existent, and if you do manage to find somewhere, it’s usually not very good with bad male / female ratios.

Having said all of that, it is the easiest place on this list to meet women, and of course some of them will be hot.

How To Meet Girls In Jakarta, Indonesia

The girls here love foreign guys and you need to do nother more than fire up Tinder and start swiping.

If you can meet them near to your apartment, it doesen’t take much ability even for the average guy to go home with the girl for fun.

As ever, just be respectful and remember they are human beings with feelings!

Meeting girls in the daytime in Jakarta

A good place to go is the Grand Indonesia. Like Siam Paragon, it is an enormous multi level mall with easy opportunities to approach women.

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Grand Indonesia, Jakarta

19. Bangkok, Thailand

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Bangkok, home of cute Thai Girls

Hotness Of Women: 6.5/10
Difficulty Of Approach: 5/10
City Livability: 6/10
Nightlife: 6/10

Best Approach: Daytime

Overall Rating: 6.3/10

Bangkok scores a relatively low rating for a number of reasons:

The average woman in Bangkok is not in the same league physically as the other cities on our list.

The nightlife is sadly infested with ladies of the night and (more worryingly) ladyboys, who are often quite hard to spot!

Finally the city itself is sprawling, hot and humid, incredibly crowded and difficult to navigate.

However for the average guy it can be paradise if you’re willing to lower your standards and accept these limitations because it remains one of the easiest places on the planet to meet women.

Best Way To Meet Women In Bangkok, Thailand

I’d recommend trying out Tinder here, as well as approaching in the daytime.

Try Siam Paragon for daytime approaching:

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Siam Paragon, Bangkok

This is an enormous multi level shopping centre smack in the centre of Bangkok.

Thai girls love to wander around shopping centres and you’ll have no trouble finding girls to approach.

Here’s an example of me approaching a Filipina girl in the daytime on the streets of London.

Now it’s obviously not a Thai girl in a Bangkok shopping mall, but it gives you an idea of how to approach. Note the direct , no nonsense approach.

Nightlife In Bangkok

If you want to totally avoid the seedy bar and club scene, your best bet is heading out of the centre.

The number 1 place to go is Route 66. It’s very welcoming to foreigners, is busy every night of the week and is packed with the best looking Thai girls in Bangkok.

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Route 66, Bangkok

It’s also not infested with ladies of the night.

Best time to go is just after 10pm.

18. Bucharest, Romania

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The hottest girls are hard to find in Bucharest

Hotness Of Women: 6.5/10
Difficulty Of Approach: 6/10
City Livability: 6.5/10
Nightlife: 6.5/10

Best Approach: Daytime

Overall Rating: 6.5/10

Bucharest is another city that is vastly overrated.
I’ve been there 2 or 3 times and every time I’ve been unimpressed with the quality of the girls, relative to other cities on this list.

Bucharest also scores poorly in the livability index.
For a start, the city is crumbling down in many areas, and has a general air of degradation and squalor in some parts.

The city was bombed in WW2, which is a great shame, but was rebuilt with Soviet style (ugly) architecture. Since then it has fallen into disrepair.

As well as this, pickpocketing is rife. You’d better be switched on when you walk around, and keep your wallet in a safe place. Sadly the local Roma children are the main culprits, but that doesn’t help you if your stuff is stolen.
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Roma Children Pickpockets, Bucharest. Credit : Dailymail.co.uk

If you’re a fast runner you might stand a chance of getting your wallet back, but it’s unlikely. These kids are younger, fitter and probably faster than you.

NOTE: I didn’t personally encounter this,
but I have read stories about it. Plus, I am actually a very fast runner even at 42 and was even faster in my 30s.

Meeting Women In Bucharest

Despite all of this, Bucharest still makes the top 20 list.

There ARE some stunners to be found if you look hard enough, and it is very each to approach the women. They are open to talk, friendly and if they like you, they will let you know!

Approaching Women In The Daytime In Bucharest

I’ve recommended a daytime approach for Bucharest. The reason is that the nightlife is not great, and there are some parts of the city that are relatively pleasant to wander round and approach the local women in the daytime.

The main walking street in Bucharest to meet local women is Boulevard Ion C. Bratianu. This is where you should be spending most of your time to meet women during daylight hours.

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Ion C Bratianu, Bucharest

The street runs right through the centre of the city, and there are coffee shops and bars dotted around close by, so you can stop and watch the local ladies walking around before you spot one you’d like to approach..

Romanian girls are well aware of the value of good looks so they always look their best. Unfortunately because it’s a poor country the dental care is not the best, but they make the best of what they have.

When you approach, smile, be respectful and don’t lord it over them because you come from a richer country.

For a start the girls will probably be aware of this, and they’ve seen it all before.

They are easy to approach and start a conversation, but as with any woman in the world, just flashing money around and trying to show off makes you look weak. Plus, it’s not great for your self esteem.

It also attracts the Gold Digger type who doesn’t really like you for you. And who wants that?

Nightlife In Bucharest

The best club to go to is Bamboo. This is a high end club, so this is where you’ll find the very hottest women.

The women in Romania have to make the best of what they have, and because of this you will find a decent proportion of girls who are looking for sponsors – wealthy guys that can give them the kind of lifestyle that they crave.

And who can blame them?

These girls are much more difficult to approach, for 2 main reasons:

(i) They are much better looking than the average Romanian girl and they know it.

(ii) They are looking for sponsors and stability. Therefore they are less likely to be impressed by a foreign guy who will not be staying longer term.

However they are still women so they do respond to the universally attractive masculine qualities, as outlined in my book Primal Seduction.

Now some guys reading this might be tempted to lie through their teeth to the girls and make up a story about living in Bucharest, showing ostentacious displays of wealth, etc.

Your call. In my view that’s weak behaviour and I have no interest in it.

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Bamboo Nightclub, Bucharest

The best way to meet women in high end nightclubs in Bucharest

There will be some girls who actually have their own money, come from good families and are just partying and having a good time.

If you’re like me, these are the girls that you’ll be interested in because you know the attraction is real. You can find maybe 10-20% of girls in high end cubs like Bamboo will fit into this category.

You can spot these girls because usually they won’t be sitting at private tables taking selfies. Instead they’ll be clustered around the bar area with their friends.

17. Buenos Aires, Argentina

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The beautiful women of Buenos, Argentina

Hotness Of Women: 7/10
Difficulty Of Approach: 7/10
City Livability: 7.5/10
Nightlife: 7/10

Best Approach: Bars / Daytime

Overall Rating: 7/10

Buenos Aires scores relatively highly on the hotness of women scale, as well as its livability score.

However there are some quirks about this city that the average guy will definitely need to bear in mind.

Where To Stay In Buenos Aires

The best place to stay which gives you access to meeting women in the daytime and nighttime is Palermo Soho.

It’s a beautiful part of the city, with all the best restaurants, bars and places to meet girls.

Palermo Soho Buenos Aires

Palermo Soho, Buenos Aires

Approaching girls in the daytime in Buenos Aires

Argentinian women are usually quite cautious due to the locals leering, wolf whistling them and generally making them fearful of being approached.

Therefore, you will need to approach cautiously with a smile, be non threatening and try to take her for a coffee.

The reason is that Argentinian women are also notoriously flakey – so try and solidify any interaction with a coffee after a brief chat rather than immediately exchanging numbers and / or Facebook details.

Nightlife In Buenos Aires

Probably the best option for the average guy to meet the best looking women in Buensos Aires is Rosebar, in the Soho neighbourhood.

Unlike LA, you don’t need to get there until about 11pm because the party doesn’t really start until 2 – 2:30am.

Once you’re inside you can get a table relatively cheaply and eat delicious free food, whilst chatting to the hot local woman.
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Rosebar, Buenos Aires

You’re better off trying to get the girl outside of the venue before it gets really busy at 2:30, because the competition dramatically increases and you’ll be competing with the young (and sometimes well off) local guys.

If you’re solo you have to make a judgement call whether to stay until the end and then try to bounce with the girl (and probably her friends), or try and take her to a more intimate local bar where you can talk more easily.

Check out my book Primal Seduction and video course Secret Society – you’ll find out all the techniques, mindsets and tactics to go to a foreign city, approach and pick up the local girls.  

16. Rio De Janeiro, Brazil

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Hot…But the city is overrated

Hotness Of Women: 7/10
Difficulty Of Approach: 6/10
City Livability: 6/10
Nightlife: 8/10

Best Approach: Nightclub / Bars

Overall Rating : 7/10

You might be surprised to see Rio with a lower ranking than some of the other cities on this list.

Well, that’s because it’s actually overhyped.

The average girl doesn’t match the quality of the American cities listed, and is nowhere near some of the FSU cities.

The city scores lower on livability than average because of the danger posed by crime and the proximity of Favelas.

It’s important you choose the right area to stay. Therefore…

Where To Stay In Rio De Janeiro

Your best bet is to stay in Ipanema. It’s safer than some of the more grimy and crime ridden areas, and has multiple nightlife options.

Ipanema Rio De Janeiro

Ipanema, Rio De Janeiro

Airbnb has multiple options. Pro Tip : Book your room for 2 people, because the hosts can get very antsy about bringing “guests” back to the apartment. DO NOT book for 1 and check the reviews carefully to save yourself some trouble.

Bear in mind that you’ll probably have to take taxis to get from A to B if you want to explore the nightlife. Uber works fine here.

How To Meet Women In Rio De Janeiro

Daytime: Stick around Ipanema and try near to the beaches, coffee shops and bars. Also check out the Juice bars dotted around Ipanema – often a good spot for good looking local girls taking some time out alone.


Rio is an enormous city so you need to be clued up.

Here’s what you should do:

First, check these 2 resources for parties in the city.

bembrasilrio.com shows parties for every day of the week. Not many Gringos know about this website, so you’ll get the lowdown on the best places to party in the city with minimal competition.


riotimesonline.com is equally as good – it’s an English news resource for events in Rio. It’s updated daily and is again not well known.

Using these 2 resources you are gauranteed to find the best parties where locals hang out, without facing an enormous sausage fest.

Be Direct And Sensual When Approaching Brazillian Women

Brazillian women are very sensuous and passionate. To stand the best chance of pulling, be direct, tell her how much you like her and don’t be afraid to touch her (respectfully).

Here’s a demonstration video of me meeting a Colombian girl in the early evening on the streets of London. As you can see it’s very direct and passionate – even to the extent where I kiss her passionately in a short timeframe.

Colombian women are quite similar to Brazillian women in that they are passionate and sensual – so the video is a good demonstration of what you can expect.

You’ll need lots of confidence and timing to do this though.

There is a big Beach and fitness culture in Rio, so if you intend to go there try and get in the best shape you possibly can before you go. Be warned that the majority of the locals will all be in tip top physical condition.

Menprovement has an excellent guide to building a superhero body fast – check it out!

15. Chisinau, Moldova

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Girls From Chisinau Are Beautiful And Open To Approach

Hotness Of Women: 8/10
Difficulty Of Approach: 6/10
City Livability: 6/10
Nightlife: 6.5/10

Overall Rating : 7/10

Best Approach: Daytime

Chisinau has some very beautiful women, no doubt about it.

Of all the cities in this list though, the city is let down by crumbling infrastructure, poverty, poor nightlife and a hard way of life.

This is a great shame because I found Moldovan girls to be naturally beautiful, incredibly sweet, honest and positive, happy people. It is criminal that they are let down by a corrupt government and general neglect. They are great people (even the guys are cool there too).

There is sadly also not much nightlife, and the city is spread out. For this reason, I’d recommend approaching in the daytime.

Where To Stay In Chisinau, Moldova

You really must stay somewhere near the centre. A good rule of thumb is to stay near the main shopping mall (Mall Dova)

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Mall Dova, The Main Shopping Mall In Chisinau

Approaching Women In The Daytime In Chisinau

Mall Dova is a good place to meet women in the daytime. As well as this, check out the main walking street (Bulevardul Ștefan cel Mare) which goes right through the centre of the city.

While you’re there just keep an eye out for the number of mobile phone shops. It’s utterly insane, one every 20 metres.

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Stefan Cel Mare, Chisinau

If you get time, also visit the Military Museum. No you won’t find girls there but it’s something to talk about on a date and there are some interesting examples of old Soviet War Machinery.

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Me At Chisinau War Museum, Chisinau

Nightlife In Chisinau

A lovely bar to go to to is Cocos Prive, not far from Mall Dova. It’s an intimate, well laid out cocktail bar with a great vibe. You’ll definitely spot some good looking Moldovan girls here.

It’s also got really pretty decorations and sculptures which are perfect for your Instagram pics.

Another great place is Jack’s Bar And Grill. This place is perfect for a date, or just to eat and soak in the atmosphere. You’ll see lots of approachable and attractive Moldovan women here, especially from Thursday – Sunday.

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Jacks Bar Chisinau

Across the road from Jacks there is also the Sky Bar – a nightclub which you should also check out.

14. Budapest, Hungary

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The women of Budapest are hot…But not easy to approach

Hotness Of Women: 8/10
Difficulty Of Approach: 6.5/10
City Livability: 6/10
Nightlife: 7/10

Overall Rating: 7.0/10

Best Approach: Nightclub / Bars

Where To Stay In Budapest

The city is split up into districts, which can make it confusing.

The best places to stay are around the Gozdu area on Kiraly Utca , or anywhere in district V or VII.

This gives you the best mix of places to meet women in the daytime and night time.

How To Meet Women In Budapest

Meeting women in the daytime

I would recommend meeting girls in the daytime if at all possible.

The city is large and you will see hot girls walking around everywhere.

The absolute best streets are Kiraly Utca, Vaci Utca and also check out the West End Shopping Mall (and surrounding streets).
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Vaci Utca, Budapest

Nightlife In Budapest

Thought there is plentiful nightlife, Budapest is busy all the year round, and in 2018 is sadly infested with all types of tourists.

It’s difficult to go to a club or bar without encountering loud Americans and backpacker types.

Sometimes you’ll be hard pressed to find locals.

In addition, the bar staff and waiters can sometimes be rude and deliberately obnoxious, which can sour the experience.

The 2 best places to go are:

Hello Baby

This is a large club which gets busy on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays.

There is a small VIP section but still plenty of areas where you can approach the women without difficulty.

Be warned though, this place is usually full of tourists – so go on Thursday night if possible.


Go here on a Tuesday night – less tourists but still busy. This is where you wil see the best looking women in Budapest.

The club is laid out so that it’s easy to approach – perch yourself at any of the 3 bars and talk to the girls in the near vicinity.

Alternatively try approaching on the dancefloor.

Dress to impress because the guys in Budapest offer stiff competition and are often buff and good looking.

13. Stockholm, Sweden

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Stockholm Is Full Of Hot Blonde Girls

Hotness Of Women: 7.5/10
Difficulty Of Approach: 6/10
City Livability: 7/10
Nightlife: 7/10

Best Approach: Bars / Daytime / Nightcub

Overall Rating: 7.2/10

If you like beautiful Blondes, you’re in for a treat if you visit Stockholm in Sweden.

This place is heaven for single bachelors if you’re a dark haired, dominant kind of guy. Swedish men are notoriously reticent to approach their women, and because of genetic diversity, Swedish girls love dark haired guys who take charge.

Despite this, the city has an overall lower rating than some because of the expense and difficulty of approach.

Word has got out about the beauty and liberal attitude of Swedish women, so you’re in for some tough competition.

However fear not! Here are the best places to meet women with lower competition.

Where To Meet Women In Stockholm, Sweden

I’d recommend trying to meet women in the daytime. The best place to do this is in the Stureplan area.

This is the more wealthy part of Stockholm, with many designer shops, bars and restaurants.

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Stureplan, Stockholm

This is where you will find the best looking Swedish women wandering around – often alone.

This gives you the perfect opportunity to approach and try to chat them up.

For nightlife, head to the following 3 clubs (all in the Stureplan area):

Cafe Opera:

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Cafe opera, Stockholm

This is a classy place with a good male / female ratio. You’ll find some of the top end women here.

Pro Tip: Arrive early to avoid the queues and cover charges. Before 11pm is best.

You’ll find it behind the Stockholm Opera House.


Even more high end than Cafe Opera. You’ll find the absolute best women in Stockholm here.

However you’ll need to be on top form and dressed perfectly, as the women have high expectations.


This place is way more relaxed, and you can stil find Swedish babes here!

You can afford to take your time a bit more here as hardly any Swedish guys approach. A relaxed and low key approach works best here.

12. Los Angeles, United States

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Lots of stunning girls in LA but more difficult to approach

Hotness Of Women: 8/10
Difficulty Of Approach: 8/10
City Livability: 6.5/10
Nightlife: 8/10

Best Approach: Daytime, Bars

Overall Rating: 7.2/10

Los Angeles scores highly for the hotness of the women in the city (it’s where the best looking girls in the world flock to if they want to become stars!), and the nightlife.

However, the city is enormous and sprawled out, and it is not easy to attract the best looking women here.


Because you’ll be competing with young, jacked, socially proofed men with status.

It’s not even inconceivable you’ll be competing with movie stars.

LA is a city where status and looks matter to a high degree. So if you’re looking to meet hot women here, you need to be in the best form of your life, and the best shape of your life to stand a chance.

For the average guy looking to meet women who are in reality more physically attractive than themselves, LA is not really the place to be. It IS a challenge!

Don’t even bother with Tinder to attract the best looking women unless you’re extremely photogenic and have an amazing profile and linked Instagram account.

I’d recommend trying to meet girls in the daytime and low key bars.

Meeting Girls In The Daytime, Los Angeles

The best place to head in the daytime is Manhattan or Hermosa Beach.

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Manhattan Beach, Los Angeles

You’ll need to rent a car to get here though, as it’s about a 45 minture drive from the city centre.

This area is packed with cool bars and restaurants, with lots of the stereotypical LA girls walking around just waiting for a guy like you to approach. So get to it!

Nightlife In LA

LA is a city where you really need to have a clear plan of where you’re going, if you want to avoid getting stung by expensive taxi rides and interminable traffic jams.

Furthermore, there is a cutoff at 2am – so make absolutely sure wherever you go that you arrive between 10 – 1045 pm. If you don’t you’ll be stuck in endless queues and have to deal with promoters to even get into a decent venue.

Probably the best area to go to if you’re new to LA is Hollywood.

Here you’ll find the most diverse selection of places to go, that are actually accessible to the average guy without needing to bring 5-6 girls with you, and huge bottle service bills.

Try these clubs out:

EP & LP:

This is a great all round venue, where you will be able to get in if you arrive before 10pm, and a decent amount of good looking women. If you’re staying near the centre you can take an Uber back to your apartment for about $20-$30.

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Harlowe, Hollywood

Come here before 10pm and you’ll be laughing. There’s a diverse mix of girls from all races, enough for everyone.

It’s not as exclusive and pretentious as the top end places, and nowhere near as expensive – and you can spot some absolutely stonkingly beautiful women here. Recommended!


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